weheartit
Although adorable and proficient in the "Laughter is the Best Medicine" school of thought, I wouldn't want
Grover as my doctor.
A friend of mine who is very overweight was having a doctor's visit and I suggested she asked for a diabetes test since being overweight can increase your risk. And she was exhibiting a few other symptoms. She acted like it was a ridiculous idea. She said that she wasn't going to worry about it because if her doctor wanted her tested, he would. I was in shock.
I know one of the biggest reasons for not asking for tests or even going to see the doctor is that you'd rather not know. But you have to find out to fix it. My MIL didn't go to the doctor for years and when they found her cervical cancer, it was
too late. I don't want to scare you but I really want you to be healthy, wealthy and wise. I can't do a lot about the wealthy, I can do a little about the wise, but you have to work on the healthy.
You can't expect your doctor to be in charge of your health. There are many reasons why they wouldn't test you.
Time Constraints
You know how you go in to the waiting room and wait....a long time. Doctors overbook themselves and may not be as focused on you or have time to shake of the last patient to only consider your symptoms or complaints.
Money, honey
Some insurance companies do not cover certain lab work or procedures and the doctor is not familiar with each person's insurance details. They may not want to request a test that is not going to get paid for
Look for horses not zebras
Doctors are trained to look for the simplest solution. If you have a headache, they are going to think stress, or fatigue. Not
brain tumor. Unless you explain that it's not just a headache, it's blurred vision and weird tastes in your mouth.
Patients aren't forthcoming
If you don't tell the doctor all your symptoms how is he supposed to diagnose you efficiently?
Stepping on Toes
Your GP may not feel comfortable diagnosing diabetes, or he may not be familiar with the symptoms because he didn't go to school to be an
endocrinologist
They're Just Assholes
It's sad but true. Sometimes they just don't take you seriously and don't want to spend time with you. If you get a doctor who blows you off or is mean to you, find another one. You're paying them for a service (or your paying for insurance to pay them)It is never okay for them to make you feel stupid.
Dr. House is fun to watch, but that's it.
You know your own body. You know if something is wrong, trust yourself. I'm not saying you shouldn't trust your doctor too. But the best advice I have ever heard is to remember that your doctor is just a human, albeit a human with a lot of education. But they are not some omnipotent deity. They make mistakes or miss things too. It's your job to help them take care of you. And to take your health into your own hands.
How do you make sure you're taken care of?